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dbogdonanwicz said:
What console do you have destiny for? Also, level, class, subclass?

I’m just starting out because my boyfriend has been hogging the PS4, hahaha. I’m a level 3 awoken warlock. Nothing special right now and I haven’t picked a subclass. I’m not sure if I like the game enough to continue! :S

Anonymous said:
Don't you just love playing video games!

It’s good stuff. 

Anonymous said:
what games are you playing right now?

StarCraft II, Diablo III, Heroes of the Storm (Alpha), Titanfall, Destiny, Mario Kart 8, The Legend of Zelda: A Link Between Worlds, and Halo 4. Just to name a few. I occasionally pick up older games and give them a play! 

Anonymous said:
You're a gamer? What type of games do you play? RPGs? Action? Puzzles? Etc. Type of system you prefer and why. For how long have you enjoyed gaming, what got you into it? Favorite game? Favorite character?

I certainly am! I’ll try to answer all your questions.

I’ve been into gaming from a very young age. A lot of my interest started with watching my dad play games when I was growing up. My first console was the SNES which we had for a while. I then remember getting a Playstation for free when my family got a minivan, haha. My favourite console is actually the N64. I still have mine from the 90s, and I still play it to this day. I’m a bit of a collector, and I have all of the original packing for the system and for all the games I have. 

I love FPSs, adventure games, RPGs, MMORPG, real-time strategy games, racing games, etc. I’ll play anything! I don’t discriminate over what console I use, I generally stick to PC and my Xbox One. I’m currently using PC, Xbox One, WiiU, 3DS, and PS4. They all have their perks! I’m not going to be that person who makes 360 No Scope videos with Battlefield 4 on the PC because console gaming is for noobs. 

My favourite game is a three-way-tie with Legend of Zelda: Majora’s Mask, Halo 2, and Titanfall (because it’s all I play right now). I’m definitely a casual gamer, I’m not really interested in being the best. I play to relax and have fun! I don’t have a favourite character, but if I have to pick, I’d say Master Chief. I even have a wearable helmet that lives on the bookshelf next to my bed. Or Bowser! Gotta love your bad boys. 

Anonymous said:
I'll kiss the 20 year old. I am 19 and a girl. I know that it probably wouldn't be special, but I would do that for him if it made him happy.

That’s incredibly sweet of you! :D

Anonymous said:
I can't belive you were 19 when you had your first kiss. You're gorgeous.

Pretty isn’t everything. 

Inbox me questions? Anon or not I will answer anything.
Reblog if you will answer anything that lands in your in your inbox…
Go on anon and tell me something you’re too afraid to say off anon.
Anonymous said:
Hello I'm a 20 year old male. Who is a virgin, never kissed anyone and never had a date. I feel like in going to be the real 40 year old virgin. No question really just needed to say this to someone. Sorry to take a spot in your inbox.

Hello! I was 19 years old when I had my first kiss, my first date, and lost my virginity. Age is just a number, and there’s no “normal” or “right” time to do anything. Some people do things earlier, some people do things later. And that’s okay! The worst thing you can do to yourself is compare yourself to others. The only person who cares that you’re 20 and you haven’t had these things, is yourself. So stop caring! Don’t beat yourself up over this. It will happen when it happens. 

Anonymous said:
This isn't really a question but I just have no one to go to. I'm so stressed out this school year and it's only been two weeks. I cry every night and sometimes in the mornings when I wake up because that's how bad I don't want to go. I don't know what to do anymore because honestly I feel like one thing is happening after another and it's so hard. Sorry for bothering you..

Please speak to a guidance councillor, parent, teacher, or trusted adult about your school stress. There’s always someone to go to, you just need to use the resources you have to go find them. I was once going through a very difficult time at home and it caused my grades in school to drop. I went to my english professor about it and I asked if there was anything I could do to improve my grades, and I let her know that my home life was really rough. She was incredible about it. She offered me extra credit, was always emailing me to see how I was doing, and she let me know about the fantastic psychiatrists and therapists on campus who I should talk to. She had hundreds of students to teach and research of her own to do, and she still helped me out. Talk to anyone you can about it, you are not alone, help is out there. 

Anonymous said:
So my ex and I broke up 6 months ago. I thought I was over him and he thought the same about me but one thing led to another and I fell for him all over again and he for me. He made me believe that up until a few mins ago...I feel used again...help?

I’m going to need a bit of clarification. What exactly happened that makes you feel used? How did he make you believe he fell for you up until a few minuted ago? What happened to change that? I need more information. 

Anonymous said:
I'm very confused and idk if this is normal but like last night I had a panic attack and after a while i kinda calmed down and then I went to sleep but when I woke up I still didn't feel right and while I was at school it still felt like I was in my panic attack like it felt like my mind was racing and I couldn't get enough air into my lungs and I was super shaky. I'm so confused 😩

You’re just experiencing the symptoms of a panic attack right now, there’s nothing to be afraid of. You’re not going to feel right for a little while. Your body went into a state where you strongly felt like something bad was happening to you. It’s very normal for your body to take a little while to get back to feeling normal. The symptoms last a little longer than the initial attack itself. 

I hope you feel better soon. I’m not the person you should be going to right now, please talk to your doctor or even your parents about this. They can help you a lot more than I can. There’s only so much I can do from behind a computer screen. 

Anonymous said:
Hello! You can call me Pip! I am 16 and turning 17 quite soon. I really want to make new friends but i don't know how to go about it. I'm very shy when it comes to people i don't know and sometimes i can barely form a sentence right. I know the best thing is to be myself, but i don't know how to even start a conversation. Do you have any tips? Thank you for taking the time to read this by the way!

Hey Pip!

I was very shy when I was your age, I totally understand where you’re coming from. What I did when I tried to get out there and meet new people was put myself in positions where talking was mandatory. If you join a team or a club at school for something that you really enjoy doing, you will meet a lot of new people. If you join the soccer team, you have your love of soccer in common, if you join the photography club, you know what these people are into. Take your interests and use them as a tool to share your passion with others. Meet people like yourself and go from there. It doesn’t even have to be with your school, you can find the local community centre or clubs online or through facebook. 

I got a job at 16 where I worked for a really cool indoor arcade, complete with mini putt, rock climbing, and go-karts. If anything, being forced into making small talk with strangers, meeting coworkers my age, and just being stuck with people all the time really got me out of my shell. Several years later, I’m in my early 20s and I’m still friends with the people I met there. It doesn’t hurt that I starting to make some money and got some experience for my resume!

Face your fears head on. I understand what it’s like to want to meet new people, but having your shyness hold you back. You may have to be a little uncomfortable in order to get the results you want, but learning how to be around strangers and how to make new friends will be incredibly beneficial in the end. I went from purposely avoiding people because I was too afraid to talk to them, to who I am now, someone who goes out of her way to chat up the old ladies at work to get them to smile. Being personable and able to talk to people you just met is a very good skill to have. You can do it Pip! 

Anonymous said:
hi, i'm wondering if you can help me. this girl i've been hanging out with, i really like her a lot. we're like really close, exchanging "i love yous" and other forms of flirtation. today, she asked me if i would be okay with her sleeping with other guys, to which i responded with a tentative "no". she seemed relieved, and told me if i were to get involved with another girl, she'd be pretty mad, to put it nicely. then she went on to say we weren't dating, and now i'm really confused...

What I think she meant by asking you about sleeping with other people was to get an idea of your feelings for her. It wasn’t exactly a good way to go about it, but she wanted to know if you felt similarly. She probably shouldn’t have told you she would be pretty mad if you wanted to sleep with others. You are not together, what you do with your sex life is not her concern, she has no say in that part of you.

Personally, I would take this as a sign to try to ease into letting her know you want to date (if you do), or to get away from her if you feel that what she just did was unacceptable. It’s good to be on the same page, and it was good that she was open about how you aren’t dating, but it’s not okay to force exclusivity on you if you aren’t together. Saying “we’re not together but you can’t be with other people” was not cool, regardless of her intentions with you. It’s not fair to be friends with someone who says they love you, but is firm in saying you’re not dating. Like you said, it’s very confusing.

The next step is up to you.